Saturday, January 10, 2009

I survived exams. And: MOM'S HERE!

I bet you for sure thought I'd gotten permanently lost in the metro system or swallowed by the crowds on Nanjing Road. Not so, my dear readers; it was simply final exam stress that kept me from my computer. If you're reading this, I want to tell you how much I appreciate you coming back after two full weeks of non-posting.

First: finals. Under the exceptional tutelage of my friend Eric, a comp-sci grad student at Donghua, I studied like I've never studied before. Eric tells me that Chinese university hopefuls study for 16 hours a day for an entire year - no weekends - in preparation for the entrance exams. Only about one in fifteen make it. So I think he was a little surprised when I assured him that six hours of studying per day was a lot by Canadian standards, and that 12 would be pushing it. Anyway, I made Starbucks my second home and worked my butt off, memorizing about 400 new characters, an entire textbook of grammar concepts, and four Speaking mini-speeches on the topics of:

1. My favourite restaurant
2. My ideal husband ("All around me are handsome men and rich men, but looks and money are not as important and morals and a good education")
3. My views on interracial marriage ("Cross-cultural marriages may have some disadvantages, but mixed-blood children are almost always more beautiful and smart" [this was straight from our curriculum])
4. My opinion on old people remarrying ("Old people who want to remarry may worry that their neighbours may say this or that, but happiness is more important than what the neighbours think")

I can't wait to apply my new conversational skills to real-life situations, in the manner of "All I want is to marry a man who can pay for one vacation per year."

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MOM IS HERE! She arrived last night at the Pudong Airport and came home to fill my cupboards with organic peanut butter, popcorn kernels, gourmet crackers, Panda licorice, goat brie, and other yummy foodstuffs that make me feel ten bazillion more times at home. Today we hit Nanjing Road - see mom brandishing her first Uniqlo bag - and went over to Fuzhou Lu, two blocks away, to the amazing paper stores there. Mom loves bookbinding and got totally giddy about how ridiculously cheap paper is here compared to the overpriced paperies at home, kind of how I got about scarves and Fineliners.

Tomorrow we're going to go to Taikang Lu and reprise today's amazing foot massage experience - it's seriously a good pain. It's so great to be on holiday and I can't wait to go to Beijing on Monday! After five days there, we're on to Qingdao, former German colony and home of China's most famous beer.

Back soon!

Photos:
1. Crazy bamboo scaffolding by the university
2. Shanghai cultural immersion: shopping
3. The beautiful paper Mom bought. Three dollahs!
4. The paper place.



6 comments:

Unknown said...

Glad you're back!

Rosebud said...

Oh so great to see your pictures and Hi Jocelyn! Congratulations on the exams - and I thought 8 hours of studying a day was a lot.

Yvette Stack said...

How nice to see you back, and lo, a picture of your lovely mother too! sounds like you will be having a great time together, and the contents of your cupboards sound very inviting.

Antony Adler said...

Well I completely agree with your curriculum on the point of mixed kids having the looks and the smarts.

Laura B. said...

Hey now. Just 'cause I'm English through and through doesn't mean I'm not a looker or smart.... or haven't downed a bottle of red entirely on my own.


terha: the pronunciation of "Terra Nova" after having imbibed a full bottle of wine.

Anonymous said...

Mmmm .... Uniqlo .... aaaggghhhh (shopping drool)